Okay, I'm gonna give you guys the background information on this whole situation so you can hopefully help me out here. I started dating this guy, Kevin, a few weeks ago. Things were going good, we'd talk and text and get along well when we were together. On our first date we talked a lot about ourselves and what we're looking for right now and I bluntly said, "I'm not f*cking around anymore." And I menchoned that to him last Sunday again and he said to me, "And you think I am?" and I go, "No." and he goes, "Good. Because if I was you'd of been out the door by now." So we're both on the same page, or so I think. Tuesday night I was suppose to go over there, but his roommate wasn't feeling well so he told me that it wouldn't be a good idea. That's the last I've heard from him. I tried texting him a few times the rest of that night and he didn't reply. So the next day I only texted him 3 times through out the day and tried calling him once. No reply. Thursday night I texted him once, and called him once. No reply. So a girl who lives on my floor, Ashley, tries to call him off of her phone, no reply. Last night I went over to his Appartment, no one's there. Though he did menchon he was maybe going to go home this weekend to me earlier in the week. I tried calling him again, no answer. So I left a voicemail pretty much saying "Hey, I don't know if you're phone is broken or you're just avoiding me, but I'm kind of worried. I wanna talk to you. I'd appricate it if you'd call me or text me, bye." Then my friend Sam tried calling him off of her phone later that night, no answer. I texted him this morning, "So I just thought of something, maybe you not answer me for four days has something to do with Guards stuff (he's in the National Guard). Maybe. Or your phone is broken, or you're ignoring me. I don't see why you'd be ignoring me though, I didn't do anything. I'm really worried/annoyed/slightly starting to get angry. If you didn't want to be in a relationship with me, if that's what this is about, then you should of just said so and I would of been fine with it. Like I told you twice now Kevin, "I'm not in this to fuck around" and you said you wernt either. Well. I am worried about you. I'm also kind of worried about myself right now because I'm not as mad as I probably should be at you right now. But I really want you to see you. I hate not understanding and right now I'm not understanding why you won't talk to me. But we do need to talk. Maybe I'm just being paranoid..."
Am I just being paranoid? This relationship is new, so you'd think he'd be wanting to talk to me and such. What should I do? I've done pretty much everything that I can think of. I'm not really freaking out, but I kind of am getting to the point where it's really starting to annoy me because I don't understand why he's not answering me or anything when everything was perfectly fine. It's weird. What should I do?
I'd really appricate some advice :) Thank you for taking the time to read this. It means a lot to me.